“Feminism expects a man to be ethical, emotionally present, and accountable to his values in his actions with women — as well as with other men. Feminism loves men enough to expect them to act more honorably and actually believes them capable of doing so.”
-Michael S. Kimmel
The patriarchy feeds us with the image that men are uncontrollable monster, brutal animals who cannot stop himself from committing an act of violence. Which is why feminism is a compliment to men all over. Men are not monsters who cannot act other than according their instincts.
Ps. I know I’ve used this image before. But I think that this fits in so well to this post.